Fear of What Hasn't Happened

By Ava Kesler

Bruh. Just read that title. I mean it sounds silly doesn't it? Like some kind of title of a really cringy movie that is trying too hard.


But unfortunately this is the sad reality that faces so many of us.


You may know it as: anxiety.


Blah blah blah we all know about anxiety, duh.


But do we??


Probably not as well as we think.


Ask yourself, why do you wait so long to get things done? There is a fear that sits in all of us about the future. Some more than others, we all deal with doubt.


The point is to not let it get in the way of achieving what you want to. I can sit for so long putting something off because it seems so unachievable, so out of this world.


But the second I start, it suddenly doesn't seem that bad.


How can this be?


I really don't know. I'm not a psychologist or whoever would know best about this. All I can say is, I have experienced this first hand.


There is no success in putting things off. If you want something, decide and really decide that you want it, and then go for it.


There is an extremely beautiful joy to be found when you do things because you want to and because you made time to, as opposed to waiting for a deadline to approach.

 

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